I used to think that I need to heal myself from all the unspoken wounds that I had. I’ve tried to reach out to them and to understand what was the reason for my suffering. I was trying to read introspective literature trying to find out the cure.
And you know what’s bizarre? We are continuously told that the secret of happiness is good self-esteem. And sometimes we just underestimate the value of the words written before.
In reality, healing means accepting yourself just the way you are, with or without someone. Moreover, be happy with yourself, know your worth.
Life taught me that sometimes, the ones whose support you need the most, simply won’t support you, and won’t meet your expectations. That’s why you should be ok with yourself. That simple.