Avoiding You Because They…
Assume they burned the bridge during your last big fight.
Are still slowly deciding how they feel about you.
It’s unconscious, you just haven’t crossed their mind lately.
Refuse to reach out until you apologize for something.
Worried you’re upset with them and can’t bear to hear your rejection.
Avoid everyone while they focus on ‘a few projects’.
Feel personally guilty that you two haven’t talked in a while.
Are testing whether absence makes your heart grow fonder.
Can sense you trying to become closer friends with them and don’t know how to politely de-escalate.
Are holding back until they can figure out how to express their feelings without coming off a little bit mean.
Simply have a higher threshold for spending time apart.
Feel like you’ve crossed one of their unspoken boundaries.