How many times will they need to fail us to make us understand that they are no longer with us?
Or do we need to wait for that day when they tell us themselves that things are not working out and we should quit?
Do we need to wait for the day when we will find out that they are cheating on us?
Why are we attracted to emotionally unavailable people?
The reason is, deep down, it’s who we are. Deep down, we are so hurt that we forget what emotions are. Deep down, we wish to be emotionally unavailable and yet lead a happy life.
Deep down, we do not want to become emotionally dependent on someone else. When we see these traits in people, we fall in love with them because they are the persons we want to be. Their ignorance attracts us, their indifference attracts us.
And we should stop this. We should stop being pessimistic. The world is a beautiful place. We deserve to be loved. There are bad people.
There are good people too. We need to hold on. Just love ourselves. Feel the poignancy of our emotions. And someday, someone will feel them too.