All Women Need To Read This When a man is truly interested in you, there will be no need for you to do the pursuing. Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man if you want to, but in most cases that’s just an obvious sign that he’s not into you. It’s not natural for a man to sit back and let the woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back and allow you to do all of the calling, texting, dating arrangements, talks about the future etc, it’s pretty obvious where you stand in that man’s life. When a man really wants you, you won’t have to chase after him like he’s some celebrity who barely has time for a fan. You will be his priority.