1. Not completely true. “Knowing” would mean you truly understand your own worth and toxic qualities but wish to remain the person you are. People feel insecure towards others because they are insecure themselves. They lack a knowing of who they truly are to embrace their own power and thus this is projected onto others. Trauma can play a big roll in this also and it’s important, as a significant other, to make sure your partner who may have these insecurities knows they have a safe place with you and you shine light on their true potential.