5. He’ll ask you questions — and you will find yourself being candid effortlessly.
Only when someone is smitten with you will make efforts of asking you about yourself. He will ask you deep questions so that he will be able to know you from every perspective. Questions that he genuinely wants to ask about you. For some, it might be a novel experience, because when was the last time you had a guy making you recollect a fond childhood memory for him or asking about your passions and interests just because he is curious?
Your man will seriously start taking an interest in the whole you-you, and in return, you will find yourself being non-hesitant in sharing. You will feel seen, heard, and understood. And most importantly, you will know that you have finally found the man of your dreams.
6. You know his close ones— and they know you too.
Another big giveaway is how his friends and family treat you and how you feel with them. If he is serious about you, you will not have just met his mains, you will know them. You’ll find yourself being included in his groups and hangouts as if you were one of them. You might even hear them tell you funny stories about your man because they will want to share it with you and witness your reaction to their friend/family member first hand.
His friends and family will know you very well too, because he has talked about you so much to them. The first time you meet them, you won’t feel out of place, you will feel at home.
7. He’ll try to know your squad.
Guys tend to be more hesitant than girls in meeting their partner’s friends. It is a well-known secret that girls will tell everything of importance to their friends — and naturally, every guy knows his deeds have been relayed to these strangers as soon as they had occurred.
Understandably, you can imagine how much you mean to your man when he agrees to try to know your mains — or even better, knows them as well as you know his. He will genuinely make an effort to be friends with them because he knows how important they are for you.
8. You find yourselves talking about the future as a ‘when’ and not an ‘if’.
This is it. The big one.
The fear of commitment has to be long gone by this time for your man to have reached this stage at all. Most men don’t make plans that fall farther than a week or two. You can pick up on his commitment if you find the two of you setting dates aside for getaways months from now or movies/concerts a year or so later. That’s a sign your man is planning on sticking around and not worried about letting you know the same.
9. You will always be able to trust him.
Trust is one of the most important requirements of a happy and healthy relationship. If you cannot trust your partner, then your relationship is doomed. You know that your man is smitten by you when he never gives you an opportunity to doubt him and his actions. He always keeps you in the loop and never leaves you guessing.
He never hides anything from you, and always tells you where he is and with who. He doesn’t do this for the sake of doing it, he truly wants you to be comfortable and trusting in the relationship.
If your man shows all these signs, then know that he is truly smitten with you and you have struck gold. Love him, hold him tight and never ever let him go!