5 Ways To Stay Attracted To A Partner You’ve Been With For Years

5 Ways To Stay Attracted To A Partner You’ve Been With For Years

If you enjoy masturbating and using porn outside of your sexual practice with your partner (nothing wrong with that at all), I recommend masturbating to images/videos of your partner that she either made for you or you made together.

You don’t have to be in a long-distance relationship to take advantage of the beauty and wonder of x-rated images of your partner.

Your mind is getting more adept at whatever you are doing in any moment, be it good or bad habits. So, if you can control the outcome, why not prime your arousal response to your partner, as opposed to someone you don’t know on your computer screen?

How Do You Stay Attracted To Your Partner Long-Term?

Decide on it.

Love, like happiness, is largely a choice. It’s a mental filtering process.

Choose to see your partner in the same light that you saw them in when you first started dating… and filter out the things that would irk you if you chose to ruminate on them.

Look at your partner through rose-colored glasses, not through a magnifying glass.


Written by Jordan Gray
Originally appeared on JordanGrayConsulting.com

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5 Ways To Stay Attracted To A Partner You’ve Been With For Years
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Jordan Gray

Sex and relationship coach Jordan Gray helps people remove their emotional blocks and maintain thriving intimate relationships. You can see more of his writing at JordanGrayConsulting.comView Author posts