5 Ways To Make A Guy Miss You and Go Crazy About You

5 Ways To Make A Guy Miss You and Go Crazy About You

So even if you don’t want space for yourself, it’s good for you both, and it’s one of the easiest ways to make him miss you.

Find things that you can do instead of looking lovingly into his eyes all day. Create your own little space away from him. It could be as simple as reading every morning with your coffee, even if you two live together. Or taking a vacation on your own.

The more space you both have, the more you’ll miss one another and have lots to talk about when you connect again. And it’ll set the course for a healthy marriage when the time comes.

Not all married couples prioritize alone time; 29% say they don’t have enough alone time or time for themselves. This is easily preventable if you take the time to carve out time independent of one another, so know that doing so now is a great relationship practice for down the road.

 

3. Stop Trying to Make Him Miss You

You’re trying too hard, lady.

Look, men aren’t stupid. We know when women are subtly (or not-so-subtly) trying to get our attention.

If, when you’re apart, you’re doing the following things, this isn’t how to make him miss you. It is, however, a good way to annoy him and even push him away. And it’s juvenile. You’re not 17. You can do better.

  • Tagging him in photos on Facebook, even if he wasn’t with you when you took them
  • Sending him a Snapchat every ten minutes to get his attention
  • Texting his friends to see what they’re up to
  • Posting pictures with other guys on Instagram to make him a little jealous

 

The best way to make him miss you is…

Wait for it…

To be absent. You’re not really absent if you’re popping up on social media or text every five seconds. When you’re apart, go away.

I mean that with love, my dear. But you don’t need to constantly pop up in his feed for him to think about you and make him miss you. The less you’re around, the more likely he is to reach out to get your attention.

But don’t just sit around with your arms crossed, willing him to miss you. Get a life. Find things to do. That way you’ll have much to talk about, and you won’t be sitting around, hoping he’ll text.

 

4. Move Slower Than He Wants

Set the slow pace for your relationship.

I know where you went wrong.

You didn’t take control of the pace of the relationship.

You didn’t let him miss you.

You gave all of yourself to him right from the start, and then there was nothing to miss. A lot of women assume that just because a guy really wants to keep seeing them, they should let him, that they should be as available as he wants them to be.

However, my advice is to put the brakes on.

Let him have space. Let him yearn for you a little bit because that space is going to allow you to get to know each other slowly, which ultimately is better for the foundation of a solid and committed relationship.

I’ve seen it happen far too often: couples spend every waking moment together from the start. They have sex soon. Then things fizzle within weeks, and nobody knows what happened.

I know what happened. They took things too fast and suddenly the entire relationship just burns up into flames.

On the other hand, controlling the speed of how things happen is completely in your hands, and it absolutely is one of the secrets to how to make him miss you. Maybe the first few weeks, you decide you’ll only see him on weekends, and never stay the night. Over time, you might have a sleepover every few weeks.

That can increase as you get closer, but always be prepared to have time off from one another, or go home after a date rather than crashing at his house.

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