5 Tips To Help You Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions

 December 15, 2018

5 Tips To Help You Keep Your New Year's Resolutions

4. Have a vision.

To create a powerful motivation for change, picture yourself as you’d like to be and see yourself happy and confident behaving in the new way. Rather than focusing on what you don’t want, focus on what you desire. Here are some suggestions to manifest the new you:

• Draw the future you.

• Imagine what it would be like if you were the future you in this moment. See yourself carrying out your New Year’s resolutions. Notice the expression on your face, and experience how you would feel in your body. See the future you as having accomplished your goals. Experience yourself feeling proud, happy, and confident. See people in your life responding favorably to you.

 

5. Get support.

Some changes entail facing the unknown or a perceived danger, such as life after a divorce, moving to a new city, or standing up to intimidation. They require courage, and support can be a great help. Addictions and habits are hard to break, especially if they’re driven by temptation, like drugs, food, and sex. Support and encouragement from friends, family, a mentor, support group, or therapist are vital until new patterns are established as part of your self-definition.

Many people make changes on their own. If it’s been difficult for you, or if you find it hard to muster motivation and self-discipline, it may be that an internal shift is required before anything external can permanently change. Sometimes, unconscious beliefs about yourself and what’s possible hold you back. Consider that therapy can lift depression and move you through the challenges outlined above. It can raise your self-esteem, facilitate insight, and guide you in facing the unknown and maintaining new behavior.

©Darlene Lancer 2018

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Written by Darlene Lancer JD, MFT
Originally appeared on WhatIsCodependency.com
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5 Tips To Help You Keep Your New Year's Resolutions

One comment on “5 Tips To Help You Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions

  1. These are great tips. Creating an action plan is one I really struggle with. I make all these lofty goals, and then don’t make a plan for how I’m going to achieve them. I’m approaching that differently this year. I’m actually blogging about it. I wrote a post about my resolutions (and what my plan was for keeping them. I just completed my first weekly update on my progress.

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