5 Sad, Underlying Beliefs You May Have If You Were Raised By A Difficult Parent

 August 04, 2018

5 Sad, Underlying Beliefs You May Have If You Were Raised By A Difficult Parent

That makes it very difficult for you to ever believe a compliment deep down, or to ever believe that wonderful, healthy, loving, approving person, free of Hijackal games, actually loves you.

 

So many of my clients have confessed that they actually looked for somewhat nasty people. They are whom they believe they deserve. IT’S NOT TRUE!

Does this help you make sense of those deep-down feelings, the ones undermining your self-esteem, self-concept, and self-confidence? Those will also be the ones that damage your relationships with yourself and others.

A Hijackal parent did that to you. It’s not your fault. And, it’s not true. Learn how to replace these underlying beliefs. They are sabotaging you and your relationships. Be free to live an authentic, empowered life now.

 Hijackals® is my term for the difficult, disturbing, toxic people in life, which includes narcissists, borderlines, avoidant personality disorders (like psychopath and sociopath) and histrionics.


Written by Rhoberta Shaler, PhD
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