4 Reasons Why Emotionally Damaged People Screw Up Love

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Unfortunately, right now, every second that you plead, beg and negotiate with him in an effort to save your relationship is simply another opportunity for him to devalue your feelings and see you as a wimp who doesn’t think she deserves anything better.

But, this is NOT true. I KNOW you’re not a wimp. Quite the opposite– you’re a woman in love. There is not a THING in the world wrong with that— being head over heels for someone is one of the sweetest and best parts of life. Like all of my clients, you’re a problem solver who really cares about someone.

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Because he probably won’t and can’t say it clearly right now— thank you for loving him deeply.

It’s people who really love each other who take the time to ask me these questions. I honor your feelings 100% and in no way intend for this to sound harsh. It’s just that what actually works to get someone back when someone is acting strange and self-hating like this is often counter-intuitive.

You don’t have to stop loving and caring for him. Just make yourself happy from a distance until he’s ready to dig in and work on things between you. Try to go out and have fun.

Don’t let that self-hatred multiply.


Written by Elizabeth Stone
Originally appeared on AttractTheOne.com
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  1. A damaged person is not afraid to love again, they’re being cautious and when they meet the right person they become afraid, that’s where the other party needs to be more understanding and give reassurance

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