4 Main Phases of a Twin Flame Relationship

 July 21, 2018

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4 Main Phases of a Twin Flame Relationship



– A short period of the most ‘Perfect’ relationship that you’ve ever experienced.
After the initial attraction, You’ll find yourself in a deeply romantic relationship.
It will seem perfect in every possible way.
You’ll find all that you want in your partner and much more.

This is what the Twinflame relationship is actually supposed to be like.

And this is what it becomes ( if not better ) after you get through the problems that surface in the next phase.

This short period makes you aware of the perfection of yourself and your twin flame and brings back the memories that were always deep within you. This makes you want to go through the next phase ( which is a little tough ).

It’s like a trailer for what your relationship is going to be in phase four, after the reunion.




 

Phase three – The Dance – Resolving what is known as the Karma

This is the tough one.
It starts after you’ve been in a relationship with your twin flame for a while.
In this phase, all the accumulated negativity and lower emotions come to the surface.
This seems difficult to go through at the human level,
but it is actually a truly divine process in which the Twin flames get deeply cleansed with each other’s help.
This lets them achieve higher energy levels so that they can ascend in bliss together.

This is also the phase where both twin flames get spiritually enlightened…
This is when they search and find the spiritual reality.
If you’re currently in a Twinflame relationship, you’re probably in this phase (As This is the period of time when you usually begin finding information on this).


What Happens in this Phase –

– Arguments / Fights
This phase brings many arguments and fights.
This happens because the negativity that each partner is carrying within (usually at a subconscious level) comes to the surface.
The twin flame will reflect this like a mirror and so you’ll think its in them when in reality it’s in you.
This begins the deep cleansing process.

– The blame game
Each twin flame sees their own negativity and clutter in their twin flame.
Also, deep-seated fears and frustrations surface.
So you think Its happening because of the other and start blaming each other.
You consciously might not realize it but this is clearing all your clutter which is a good thing.




– The runner and the Chaser.
The arguments and the Blaming causes a lot of confusion (because usually the spiritual process is not understood by the conscious mind, as we are conditioned to trust logic more that feeling)

 

One twin flame, at this point, takes the role of the ‘Runner’ (which is usually the man)
The Runner tries to avoid the partner and run away from the relationship.
This happens because the runner doesn’t consciously know what is going on and feels like he’s losing control.

In our defense system, we build up huge walls to protect ourselves THIS HAPPENS AS SOON as we meet someone who will help us to repeat our patterns of abuse, abandonment, betrayal, and/or deprivation. He happens because those people feel familiar. Unfortunately, in childhood the people whom we trusted the most – were the most familiar – hurt us the most. So the effect is that we keep repeating our patterns and being given the reminder that it is not safe to trust ourselves or other people.