Rather, it involves loving yourself without a mate. Lots of people have a tendency to fear breakups because of their fear of being alone; conquering this fear is a key to breaking the pattern of bad dating. So, take some time to deal with yourself head on and crush that fear of being single.
When you’re comfortable being single, you are no longer running back to that familiarity that makes you comfortable and safe. When you’re comfortable being single, you can change your dating dynamic by choosing who you want to date based on what you feel, rather than what you fear.
When it comes down to it, the most important relationship we have is the one with ourselves.
When we are able to develop this self-relationship, we are able to improve our relationship with others. We are able to turn unions into platforms of self-expression, love, and kindness, instead of pillars we rely on merely to remain upright.
Written by Clayton Olson
Source – ClaytonOlsonCoaching
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