121 Things Narcissists Say When They’re Gaslighting You

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84. “You treat me like shit and you’re NOT on drugs.”

85. “Nobody likes you, they all laugh behind your back.”

86. After he breaks up with you over the phone: “You made me! You asked if you were all right.”

87. “It’s always something with you.”

88. You leave me and you will be blued, screwed and tattooed!

89. You will NEVER have the confidence to leave me!

90. “You are delusional.”

91. You have no friends.

92. Nobody likes you.

93. You’re too old; no one will ever want you.

94. You’re too fat.

95. No one will ever love you like I do.

96. You’ll never find anyone as good as me.

97. You’ll never find anyone else to put up with you like I do.

98. You’ll never have a house as nice as this one. You’ll end up living in a broken down car on the Northside. 

99. What are you going to do without me? How will you ever feed yourself?

100. I never said that…you’re crazy.

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101. You need a shrink.

102. I never did that…you’re crazy.

103. I can say or do anything I want to you because I own you.

104. “I was busy!”

105. Somebody has to earn a living!

106. “I work my ASS OFF, but nobody around here seems to care!”

107. No one is able to love someone like you, except me.

108. Why do you always have to criticize me?

109. Don’t nag me.

110. Why are you upset? I was ONLY kidding.

111. I want … I need….

112. I … me me me.

113. I was just kidding – gee, you can’t take a joke

114. Rage? What rage? Oh, so I’m not allowed to get angry?

115. Only I can treat you like shit!

116. “I never said anything to you because I just thought you knew how she felt about .you. She was talking about you, complaining. I didn’t think you were friends.”
 Narc: You have the most beautiful blue eyes.
You: Awww. Thank you.

117. Narc: I can’t do this anymore.
You: Are you breaking up with me again?
Narc: Yes.

118. “If you ever cheat on me, I’ll kill them…AND you…”

119. You started it.

120. Get over it.

121. Grow up!

Narcissists can be more dangerous than you think. Be careful.

Can you recognize any of these things narcissists say? Let us know in comments below.


Written by Angie Atkinson
Originally appeared on Queenbeing.com

121 Things Narcissists Say When They're Gaslighting You
121 Things Narcissists Say When They’re Gaslighting You
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9 thoughts on “121 Things Narcissists Say When They’re Gaslighting You”

  1. Wow been through this exact scenario 7 times. Believed it was all my fault always,
    Sadly I still do. I am working on believing in me, Leslie is a worthy person. Even with friendships with other women. No not sexualy just friendships. I ends in disaster every time. Everyone of your gaslighting sayings i heard all of them say. Plus those few that each narcissist has of their own things they say KNOWING that is the one button they can guarantee will bring you to your knees.
    If you anyway for me to work on my believing in myself and not getting in relationships that are GRAND in the beginning then the other shoe drops per say; and I find myself homeless suicidal and knowing I was the one with all the problems. \They were perfect.
    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME

    NEEDING HELP,
    Leslie W

  2. I’ve been broken up with him . He kicked me out again . Now texting me saying I wish u the best , thinking of you.

  3. I’ve lived most of these things in the last 12 years, to include her daughter she’s not skipping a beat either. I grew to hate that birch and daughter

  4. These articles are so gender biased. I think the author is projecting gender hate.
    Women are just as manipulative and cunning in narcissistic traits.

      1. A very good article. You can see a proof of that in the comments where people diminish author’s competency just so they don’t have to face their issues. Having a narcissistic partner for almost 15 years, I have lived through every single phrase that is here. I know what a denial is as I went through it. Facing the problem is the only way to end it. Thank you for being so brave to write about sensitive subjects.

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