3. “No dude, I am just so stuck today”:
Heard this line maybe yesterday, right? The negative people actually are very selfish – THEY NEVER REALLY HAVE TIME FOR YOU. You heard me right; it is only when they are free you will be the perfect person for them to hang out with. But when you need them, they are like, “I am stuck at my office”. If they had been positive buddies, the friendship would have been a both ways pertaining one where you would have always got your mate by your side.
4. A pretty exploitative friendship
They will always be at your service when you are providing them with something in return.
They are very advantageous. They are ready to take advantage of you and exploit you to your maximum.
Be it a financial advantage, study or even an amorous one, they can even be your most pretentious positive accompany.
“You are so mean”
“You never do it right” – they are very consistent in finding faults in your friendship.
You have to be perfect, solely for them.
Even if it is the noisy traffic or the cold winds, they find faults in everything present and seen.
6. Energy absorber
You do not really feel charged up whenever you are with your negative friends. They don’t make you feel worthy.
Positive friends create moments of ecstasy which you want to feel again.
However, the thought of meeting this negative person only drains your energy, which means there is no positive vibe in that friendship.
7. They want your transition
Be it your way of walking, or your style of conversing, or anything relatable to you is a must change for them. They find flaws in you in every aspects.
They cannot accept you the way you are if you are not exactly like them.
8. Gossip heads
She never knew that her best friend in school stole her pencil box until the negative people told her.
The negative friends always have something to gossip about. They just cannot keep the conversation up to a limit. There are always nasty and controversial topics they bring up whenever they indulge in a conversation.
9. A negative curtain veiling you
The more you interact with the negative people, the more you will start feeling bad about yourself. The thoughts you never had before will start instigating your mind.
This cloud over your head will blur your vision and take you further away from your dream.
10. Exhaustion of positive people
This is the lamentable part; you will gradually start losing positive people because of the negativity they see in you bubbling now.
They will start giving up on you because they now know that the more they are in your company, the more will they suffer out of anxiety and pessimism.
11. Pessimism couples with envy
Most mandatorily, negative people cannot stand your success.
They cannot stand your goodwill, talents, accreditation or anything successful. They are so engrossed in heightening themselves that their pretentious good face falls off while seeing you win.