Love is not about thinking only about your growth and well being but also thinking about your partner’s growth and well being.
It might be hard to accept this truth but acceptance is the first step towards improvement.
6) You withhold emotionally
When your partner visibly needs a kind word or some support, do you intentionally withhold it from them?
If you are doing this to create power dynamic in your equation or you are too out of touch of your feelings to be able to acknowledge and express them in a timely manner, you really need to work on your healing and core wound that has cut you off from your own emotions.
This trait can be extremely toxic and force your partner to withdraw from you as well and ultimately end the relationship.