10 Signs You’re An Ambivert (Neither An Introvert Nor An Extrovert)

 July 26, 2018

10 Signs You're An Ambivert (Neither An Introvert Nor An Extrovert)


4). You are an excellent communicator

Ambiverts can enjoy a small talk with a stranger as much as they enjoy deep and philosophical conversations. They are very intuitive and can gauge when it’s appropriate to speak and when they should listen.

Because they have traits of both extroversion and introversion they can express their ideas very well and also know to be a good listener and hence they make excellent communicators.


5). You can blend with a range of different personalities.

Since they have traits of both introversion and extroversion; they can get along easily with both introverts and extroverts.

They can blend in and adapt themselves according to who they are with.


6). You’re comfortable in most of the environments.

Ambiverts can thrive in both stimulating and non-stimulating environments.

They can enjoy yoga or walk in the park as much as they can enjoy a concert or a party.

“Because they gain energy both from spending time with others and from alone time, most situations and environments can suit them,” Dr. Brenner says. “They are flexible, which can help them to speak to crowds and spend time alone in a work setting in front of a computer researching or writing.”


7). You can be indecisive and unpredictable.

Since you enjoy both alone time and spending time with people, sometimes you might just get confused and become indecisive as to what you want to do. Sometimes you might not be able to decide whether you should just sit at home and read a book or you should go out and catch up with friends because both look equally exciting.

At other times, you might get stuck in a situation that does not suit your mood.

 “When you find yourself in a social situation that you’re not in the mood for, you might become irritable or unusually quiet,” says Brenner. “Or, you may find yourself completely bored when you’re alone at home, even though you know in the back of your mind there’s a book you’ve been meaning to read forever or a project you have to do.”


8). You have a love-hate relationship with social media.

If you are an Ambivert, then you have a love-hate relationship with the social media.

A part of you wants to stay in touch with people and seeks stimulation while a part of you seeks alone time and is indifferent to social media.


9). Your friends come to you for advice.

Since you have the traits of both Introversion and extroversion, your wisdom and balance attract your friends to you for advice.

They know that you can be a good listener and also make your point if need be and they seek out your balanced and neutral perspective to solve their problems.


10). You’ve great entrepreneurial qualities.

The Wharton’s study has proved that Ambiverts and not Extroverts excel at sales.

Also, if you are an Ambivert you can be a great leader because you can relate to both your introverted and extroverted co-workers with ease.

You have a calm and balanced approach with a right blend of assertiveness and enthusiasm that makes people respect you and follow your lead.

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