When you are crazy about someone, your mind stops working. You have this tremendous attraction that takes you deeper and deeper until you realize you have gone too far. You want to be with the person for as long as possible. But, you may also have doubts and questions and it is not wrong to have those. It is another thing to get attracted and make love and it is altogether a different thing to spend your life with them.

Is there any way to know if the person you are with your real soul mate, your true lover? Yes, there is. Just consider the points below and you will know whether this relationship is meant to be.

1)   NO NEED TO HIDE

You can’t wear a false image of perfection with the person you have to spend your days and nights, your good times and bad times. You just have to be yourself. Can you accept each other’s flaws? Can you open up to each other completely and reveal your weaknesses and still want each other? Are you so comfortable together that you do not feel vulnerable after revealing your worst fears and insecurities? If yes, it is needless to say that it is the best foundation for true love and the relationship will flourish. Go on, and be happy you have each other.

2)  MUTUAL RESPECT

Two people fond of one another appreciate and value each other naturally. This appreciation crops from faith and honesty. When you know your lover fully well, how and why they are the way they are, you will develop mutual respect. Trust lets you open up and tell them things that you don’t tell anyone. A relationship that makes you feel safe and secure is a true relationship. When you are in love with someone who doesn’t judge you or scrutinize you, you know you are with someone you must keep.

3)  NO STRAIN OF JEALOUSY

You want to be together as much as you can but also understand the need for space. Jealousy has no place in true love because there is trust and belief. You know you are still individuals who have different likes and dislikes, relationships and professional engagements. Both of you spend time separately with your friends and even go out to pursue personal interests. But when you come back the homecoming is always sweet and rewarding.

4)  LAUGH TOGETHER

You can be silly and be naughty. You can be playful and laugh your heart out. This happens when you share a healthy and friendly relationship with your lover. You can play pranks on one another as best friends do. You feel easy and comfortable and that is when you know you are destined to be together.

5)  MAKE EACH OTHER FEEL BETTER

From the onset of the relationship you make each other feel better. You find out ways to make each other loved and wanted. You help each other bring out the best in your personalities. You flourish and thrive and become the very best in whatever you do. You are admired and valued for whatever you are.


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