You want a man in your life who won’t call you crazy for the things he doesn’t understand but those things affect you. He should be someone who can soothe you when you come back upset from office. Before he asks you what happened he has the patience to comfort you, to make you feel alright. And when you tell him the reason behind your disappointment, he makes you wipe your tears and hugs you tight so that you forget all the pain. Yes, he will do it because he wants to make you happy even if he doesn’t understand the cause.

You want a man in your life who never calls you silly. He never thinks it’s bizarre when you scream at things like your phone or computer. He doesn’t let you face your problems and stands at a safe distance while you struggle. His comforting presence will never embarrass you to ask for help. You will never feel alone and he will make it known every moment.  You will know that you can fall back on him.

You want a man who never blames you for being emotional. A man who will understand the mood swings you have during your periods. He loves you for being honest and clear and he knows you can do that because you are comfortable around him. He will not blame you when you become unreasonable or too sensitive. This is how a man will truly love you, even when you are at your worst.

You want a man who will work at building a strong relationship with you. He is someone who wants to be with you and for that he will try to resolve the problems you have with him. He will care to answer your texts and try to make you understand even though what you feel is not true. Instead of overlooking the relationship issues he will work on them. He wants a long lasting relationship with you and not something for a short while.

You want a man who understands your gravest problems. He never makes fun of you about suffering from depression or anxiety. He will never tell you that you are a psychopath or crazy or mad. He will understand that you, at times, have no control over your emotions. He will know how anxiety gets the better of you and you behave oddly over things you don’t even care about.

You want a man who has emotions and reveals them freely in front of you. He will shed tears unabashedly for the loss of a near and dear one. He will not hide his emotions when he is stirred by a rom-com he watches with you. He is the man who doesn’t think he’s any less manly when he shares the innermost feelings of his soul. This man wants you to know all of him, even the things that he believes are his flaws.

You want a man who loves you unconditionally. He loves you for everything you are. Your face doesn’t drive him away. He wants to wipe your tears away. For him that is the mission of his life and he wants to do it because you are the one he has ever truly loved.


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